Throughout the ages, man has achieved feats of genius, physical prowess, ingenuity and endurance. We have climbed the highest mountains, sent probes into space and cured many diseases. เปิดยูสเว็บพนันบาคาร่าออนไลน์ที่ดีที่สุด break their backs doing 60 hour work weeks, doing physical or monotonous labor to earn some disposable income. We practice languages, learn musical instruments and go to the gym when there is a free moment. Why do we do all these things? To get girls. Everything we do to improve or prove ourselves boils down to wanting to have more sex. Heck, Einstein probably discovered special relativity because he wanted to impress the hot girl across the street.
Okay, this is an exaggeration, but in general men are constantly trying to improve themselves in the eyes of women. Thanks to countless movies, books, media and cultural influences, we have been raised to believe that women are something special with intrinsic value without doing anything to deserve it. We believe we must act if we want to be successful with women.
On the contrary, it is this point of view that ultimately makes it difficult for us to pick up girls. Girls are looking for a confident man, happy in his own skin and proud of his achievements. He knows where he’s going and doesn’t need the social proof or confidence a girl can give him.
A man can work all his life, accumulate wealth, prestige and life experience, but when he encounters a girl with a beautiful smile, he suddenly doubts whether he is worthy of her. It’s crazy, what did she do to earn this respect?
The trick to being more successful with women is to understand that you don’t have to prove yourself to them, the only person you are accountable to is yourself. Once you realize that it’s the girl’s job to prove she’s worthy of YOUR respect, you deserve HER.